Here are 3 Relationship advice for men.
First Relationship advice for men: The way you treat her is a reflection of your relationship with God.
“Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the law?
Jesus replied: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind”. 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like this: “Love thy neighbour as thyself. 40 On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets”. (Matthew 22:36-40).
It is amazing to think that all the laws God had for His people in the Old Testament are reduced to just two. But why not just one? Why is the whole law not summarized in “Love God”? It seems that the first law refers more to the condition of the heart and the second law more to the external expression of the heart. If you obey the first law to love God in all your self (i.e. heart, soul and spirit), you will automatically fulfill the second greatest commandment through your actions (love your neighbor).
And vice versa.
And vice versa. If you do not love God, you will not obey the heart of the whole moral law: Those who have the lowest view of God have the lowest value for human life. God is the source of all morality and true love. When you believe in him, you begin to lose your moral attitude and your ability to love. He is the standard to which all people are accountable.
The clearer we see God, the better our decisions will be, because we will be able to see better what we are supposed to imitate – the purest and most loving person of all time. If you don’t know God, you don’t know true love. And if you do not know true love, you will not be able to show true love. 1 John 4:20-21:
When someone says, “I love God” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. 21 And the commandment we have of him is, “He that loveth God must love his brother also”.
Christian relationship counseling: So if you want to love well in relationships as a Christian, you first need a healthy relationship with God.
Secound Relationship advice for men: The way he/she treats you is a reflection of their relationship with God.
It’s really not about you. Everything is about God. Even if people don’t love you well, the reason for their lack of love is really just their relationship with God. Just as you will not be able to love and serve people well without remaining connected to Christ, other people will not be able to love you well if their path with God does not go well. If someone shows you beautiful examples of sacrificial love, it is because he has rich, daily encounters with the God who is love.
Therefore, always support her decision to put God before you. Never complain about her desire to go to church, to go to a small group, or sometimes to read her Bible herself. To spend time focusing on God, they need to spend less time focusing on you. So don’t blame it, encourage it, because in the long run they will love you better if they put God before you.
When my wife studies Beth Moore, she has less time for me when the children go to bed because she spends an hour studying God’s Word. It is tempting to complain. But every time she does a Beth Moore study, I end up finding she’s grown. Why should I prevent that? So can we watch a few more Netflix episodes together?
It also helps to keep this principle in mind because it can help you to be less hurt if someone doesn’t treat you right. Of course, violations will hurt us. But we will be less offended if we keep in the perspective that the reason someone sins against us is ultimately that he sins against God.
Christian Relationship Counseling: It’s not about you! Even if your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend takes it upon you, God is still the most important variable in the equation of a healthy relationship.
Third Relationship advice for men: Show Him grace as God gives you grace.
There are no perfect relationships on earth because there are no perfect people. A relationship will only be as healthy as the hearts of those involved. Therefore you will never have lasting good relationships, no matter what advice you follow, unless you have a fullness of grace for other people.
If you want the ultimate example of how to love someone, just look at how God loves you. How many times have you sinned against him? How many times have you said something stupid? How many times have you been through your obligations to God through
That were 3 Relationship advice for men, hope you enjoyed.
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